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You have no ideas .....

You are the reason

1. You fill an empty space deep in my life. You truly are my soulmate and I wish to be with you forever.

2. I love our long phone calls and the secret jokes we share. The sweet pet names you created for me.

3. You have a special way of dealing with me and I’m sure you will always be there for me. You are my support and I can count on you. When troubled times face me, I feel secure because I have you.

4. I have been at my best and worst with you. Even when I’m moody and annoying, you deal with me with patience. Your love is constant and I need you forever.

5. Now that I know of your love, I will never be able to live without you.

6. I’m not interested in your past because you make my living worthwhile. All I’m interested in is building my future with you.

7. You are all that I see in my life ahead. I need you to be my constant and eternal support. I love you.

8. Whoever I met before you either broke my heart or disappointed me. You are a special person who has brought untold happiness into my life. You are my everything.

9. You are every reason in my heart and mind that I wake up each morning to see your face.


Often, I am wondering what would have happened to me if not for you, you lifted me up, really.

I think of you as my savior, the one who pulled me through when I was trapped in darkness.

Can you believe it? I was so fed up with love until you finally came along and helped me up.

If I can only tell you how much I love you, I would but my love is so vast it is hard to describe.

I would write your name over and over again if that is what it takes to show my love for you.

There was once a time when I thought I could survive by myself until I found a love for forever.

You are my happy ever after, the one that makes me feel like I can survive until I finally die.

You are still my favorite person because you listen to me when all others would dare not try.

My best person, my most important person, my I will always love person, I love you so much.

There are so many reasons I can think of why I should not be with you but hey I love you.

That is it, I am officially trying to take advantage of the vacation you have, happy trip.

You see, I just really wanted to go with you, I am so tired of being on the friend zone, love.

Giving you the world is not a big deal if you ask for it, I will spend my forever on doing that.

You are my ever after, the ending of my book, no more next chapter, you are my forever.

So I am telling you that you should forget everything before me and spend forever with me.

No mountain is too tall for me to fulfill your wishes, I truly do love you, now and forever.

Some days, I do not even know why I love you but I know this feeling I have will last forever.

How much do I love you? This much, I am willing to spend my forever with you because of it.

There is no better way to show you I love you than by spending forever together with you.

If I was given a chance to do what I wanted, I would start my forever together with you.

The person I love is strong, she is the one I have wanted all along, we are starting forever.

Forever is but a noun and it is a very vague one, but no one will ever be as vague as you.

After all this, I still believe that someday, by chance, we will meet and you will know me.

Of course you will know me. You love me and I love you and we once shared a love so true.

I wish I could have been that person you wanted to hold tight for now until forever and ever.

I do not think there is a sense into going back because I believe we should keep moving ahead.

I would cross the oceans no matter how many miles as long as I get to spend forever with you.

There are days when all I want to do is spend my forever together with you, starting from now.

I looked into your eyes and I knew that the love we have for each other will last for forever.

You may not know it yet but I know that you are the one I will be spending my forever with.

Together is the best way to be, I hope no one gets to be alone forever, at the very least.

I love you forever

Who would have known that you would be there for me exactly when I needed someone to be.

No one knows me better than you do, you will be my love forever and you know it is true.

Your love for me is so big I am not able to fully reciprocate but I will try forever to do so.

I love you to the moon and to the entire universe, you are my forever, the only one I truly love.

Some days, whenever I am reminded that you are in my life, I just smile to myself and laugh.

I love you....

Can you believe me when I tell you that no one matters more to me than you do right now?

I have always wished for someone to be with me for forever and you are my wish come true.

You are my wish

When I first saw you, I knew this love will last forever, I just knew it by the way your eyes look.

I am thankful to you because you found me, in the middle of it all, all I wanted was to love you.

Our love will keep on be strong until the sun grows cold, until the river runs dry, for forever.

You are my forever, you are the only song that I will keep on singing over again without tiring.

My forever

I believe that our love will last forever because you matter to me so much, I’d do anything.

No one knows better than the two of us that this love that we have will last for forever, dear.

You are the first person to tell me that I look beautiful with the lights on, I’ll love you forever.

Forever may not even be enough to show you just how much I truly do love you, my dearest.

No time spent together is wasted because to be able to see your face is what I truly desire.

If I can do something just for you, I would promise to keep loving you forever and ever, dear.

You are the person I truly love, the one I need, the one I desire and I will feel this way forever.

Me and you forever

Life is all about taking risks. The greater the risk, the greater the opportunity for gain.
To love is to risk rejection.
To hope is to risk disappointment.
To try is to risk failure.
To fly is to risk falling.

No one has ever accomplished anything noteworthy without taking a huge risk. Heroes risk their lives to save the lives of others.
Freedom is only enjoyed by those that are willing to risk their lives to secure it. You will not get anywhere in life without taking a risk.
The greatest risk is trying to go through life without taking a risk.
Risk taking is an irreplaceable ingredient in the recipe for success.
Christ risked everything He had to gain everyone he loved.
Remember, a ship is safe in harbor, but that's not what ships are for.
You were not created to play it safe.
You were created for adventure, and your life will not mean anything until you unleash yourself and launch.
Do not wait until the way is cleared and the destiny is in view. Sometimes you have to be a trailblazer and create a way where no one has ever traveled. Sometimes you have to light your own lamp to create the light at the end of the tunnel.

Go ahead and take a leap of faith and just do it. "Walk by faith and not by sight." (2 Corinthians 5:7) "All things are possible to him who believes." (Mark 9:23)

Life and risk taking

Husbands: Being the head of the household means work, duty, and great responsibility. The head of the household is the one responsible for everything that happens in the family. You cannot enjoy the privileges of headship and not be willing to shoulder the responsibilities that come with it. You can’t franchise, subcontract or outsource your husband responsibilities and not hurt your wife and marriage. You are accountable to God for the physical and spiritual welfare of your family. Make your wife’s life easier by carrying all your responsibilities dutifully. Your wife was not created to play her role and yours at the same time. Your wife should not live like a widow while you are still alive. You are the CEO, you are the Priest, Provider and Protector of the family. Therefore be involved. Be present. Take charge. Work hard. Pray, plan and execute. Remember your wife is your “suitable helper” not the other way round. Let your wife thank God that she is married to you.


Most marriage problems are caused by spouses who continue to think, act and behave like they're still single. You are married. Therefore do the honorable; think married, act married and behave married. It is that simple.

Marriage people Do you know this ?

“Don't just marry someone you think you can live with; marry someone you know without a shadow of doubt that you can't live without.”

Marry someone....

 lies women tell themselves when they're dating married men

There are millions of reasons men cheat on their girlfriends and wives, and just as many reasons why someone is willing to become the other woman in the equation.

Yet, no matter how good an excuse may seem or how many lies you to tell yourself to justify your feelings when you find yourself falling in love with a married man, nothing can change the simple fact that when someone is cheating, someone else is being hurt.

Whether it's in a relationship or on an exam, the act is clearly wrong. Sure, it’s not realistic to expect people be completely honest 100 percent of the time, but that’s no reason to think it's acceptable to betray someone.

Getting involved in an affair with a married man is a dangerous flame to flirt with.

You open your heart to a lot of potential hurt, because even when you try to tell yourself that you won't get attached or that the relationship is purely physical, you know on some level there will be feelings involved, and not all of them will feel good.

Here are lies women tell themselves so they feel better about falling in love with a married man in order to help you avoid falling into the same traps.

1. What his wife doesn't know won't hurt her.

That's not true at all. Just because she doesn't know about it, that doesn't mean that whenever she does find out — and she will eventually — it won't destroy her. She has devoted her life to this man while thinking that he, too, had devoted his life to her. They made vows to each other, promised to love each other forever, through sickness and health, you know how it goes, so how can you believe that finding out her husband turned his back on their marriage by having an affair with another woman won't hurt her?

2. It's purely physical.

Most people who enter into an extramarital relationship try to tell themselves this. They think they'll be able to keep things casual and then walk away at any point scot-free — no harm, no foul. Unfortunately, that's not how it works. No matter how many times people makes these promises to themselves, it's nearly impossible to follow through. When you spend so much time with someone connecting on that level, it's rare that one or both people involved don't develop feelings, and feelings make thing complicated.

3. I know better than to get attached.

This goes right along with trying to keep a relationship purely physical and nothing more.

Many women have a tough time being intimate with someone and not also becoming emotionally attached, at least to an extent. Even though in your head you have been well aware from the get-go of the fact that he's married and has no plans to leave his wife, it's rarely as simple as telling yourself that no matter, you will not fall for him. Sure, there are people who manage to pull it off, but do you really want to take the gamble and find out whether or not you'll beat the odds? They are definitely stacked against you.

 4. He'll leave his wife for me... when he's ready.

But honey, you've got to know that almost never happens. He may tell you that you're the one he really wants to be with and that he doesn't want to stay with his wife, but the vast majority of the time he'll just be saying that to keep you with him a little bit longer. Men know what women want to hear — especially married men, considering they've got some experience there — and they're not afraid to tell you whatever they need to in order to keep having fun with their affair.

 5. She's so mean to him, he'd better off without her.

A married man who is willing to cheat on his wife will clearly say anything to convince another woman she's doing nothing wrong by being with him. He's not beneath telling you how horrible his wife is or that they fight constantly and he just can't take her drama and abuse any longer. These excuses may not be anything more than bold-faced lies. He and his wife may actually have a reasonably happy marriage and you'd be none the wiser.

After all, when it comes down to it, how can you trust anything a man says to you when he's in the process of trying to make you the other woman?




Dating married men

Being single again: Eight coping strategies

Your out of you're relationship and you don't know how will you gonna live the life  without relationship?

You can be single again. Here are some tips that can help you

❤️ Grieve for what you have lost. Ending a relationship is a loss that needs to be worked through, even if being together made you unhappy. Often, we are encouraged to 'forget them and move on', but this will only keep your ex firmly on your mind.

💛 Seize the advantages of being single.As a single person, you have total control over what you do and where you go in your life. Start making plans to take advantage of your new freedom.

💚 Mobilise your support system. Being with friends and family allows you to vent your emotions as you sort through your life. They can also help you see how much you are loved and needed in your own right.

💙 Reinvent yourself. Get a haircut, change your look or take up something you've always fancied. Just don't do anything rash that you may later regret, such as leaving your job.

💜 Sort out your financial affairs.Breaking up can be stressful from a financial point of view. You may be left paying the rent or mortgage, or have to find a new place to live. If you're finding things a stretch, get some professional financial advice.

💖 Accept you'll have down times. Don't expect everything to be fine and dandy. Prepare yourself for some lonely moments, but remind yourself that they will pass and you will be happy again.

❤️ Set goals. One of the worst things about ending a relationship is seeing your future as a blank slate that was once filled with potential. Set new goals, be they work ones, travel ones or ones that broaden your life.

💛 Let yourself be happy. Single life may not be your ideal, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy it. Say yes to invites, make plans for your social life and work on finding a new way of living that pushes you out of your comfort zone now and again.

Being single again

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